Slim Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Love this one: "any females attending this week anywhere". Aw! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrsTrellisfromNorthWales Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Anyone want to take me up the Lhergy Frissell? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
x-in-man Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Nights are dark - and bloody cold! All I can say that it must be very very slow on TV in the evenings if this is all Corsa and Saxo drivers can find to do. Petrol is a quid a litre now - whats wrong with just driving round and round and round and round (stopping at Muck Donalds) driving round and round and round all night now then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
John Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 So where is the new Park & Ride Car Park going to be..? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slim Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 So where is the new Park & Ride Car Park going to be..? 9/10! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
x-in-man Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Anyone want to take me up the Lhergy Frissell? oh! I think I know you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mutley Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 so is any one going to own up to it then someone must be thats what i am saying Let's look at the facts. You look at dogging websites, go to Ramsey to investigate the scene and then start a thread on Manxforums called dogging. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chinahand Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 I don't have any problem with people who choose to swing, have one night stands, muck around with whatever sexual needs they have in the privacy of their own (or someone else's) home/private establishment. But I do have an issue with it when it enters the public arena. Doggers are in my mind no different from people who go out to expose themselves - it assumes that others want to be either directly or vicariously involved in their sexual behaviour. Well let me be blunt - I don't. I don't want to stumble upon such activity when going out for a walk, I definitely don't want my mother to have to endure it, and I would be especially concerned if my children happened upon such things. Go and do it in private and leave the public space for public activities. I fully agree that abstinance is the greatest perversion of all (and probably one of the most damaging), but today's society wants to increasingly flaunt its sexuality to others, and quite frankly I don't think that is a particularly good thing. I fully agree that both men and women should be able to express themselves sexually, and for some that may mean exposing their bodies and sexual activities to a broader (private) audience. But there is a spectrum of sexual behaviours and I do not think it is right to enforce the sterotype that all people want to be involved in this - I believe this is just as bad as the myth that all women should be chaste until marriage. Currently the pressure on young girls to flaunt it, get out for a laugh, not to be repressed about letting everyone have a look etc is growing. And I do not think this trend is necessarily sexually, or emotionally healthy. Robert Heinlein wrote: "A lady should take off her dignity with her clothes and do her whorish best; at other times she can be as modest and dignified as her persona requires." Other than the fact that the quote is offered to a "lady" and not to both sexes, I think it is a pretty good advice - our public persona requires dignity. And I do not think that exists in exposing yourself in a carpark or similar public place. For once a good bit of anglo saxon seems appropriate - I think they should F**k off somewhere private, thank you very much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slim Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Well let me be blunt - I don't. I don't want to stumble upon such activity when going out for a walk, I definitely don't want my mother to have to endure it, and I would be especially concerned if my children happened upon such things. Not trolling, genuinely interested: Why? What's so offensive about people having sex? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chinahand Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Nothing. Its the assumption that other people will want to watch YOU doing it. Or will want to be stimulated by YOU doing it. What I want to watch or be stimulated by is my business and not to be flaunted to others who don't wish to be involved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xbones Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Well let me be blunt - I don't. I don't want to stumble upon such activity when going out for a walk, I definitely don't want my mother to have to endure it, and I would be especially concerned if my children happened upon such things. Not trolling, genuinely interested: Why? What's so offensive about people having sex? Wednesday 23rd April 9:30pm in the bushes at the jurby end of the river, men only! Very discreet sucking cocks only! Yeah, I bet you'd love to see that yourself, let alone if you are out with your kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slim Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Yeah, I bet you'd love to see that yourself, let alone if you are out with your kids. Nope, true enough, I can see the case for protecting kids. As for seeing it myself, I reckon I could avoid it by simply not looking? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
immortalpuppet Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 There used to be a Dogging layby out Lincoln way by our camp, we used to use it for "training" where we would set up an OP overlooking the layby and log all the activities ( x ray 1 flashes lights, xray 3 drops knickers ect ect.) Imagine our suprise when one summers day when one of the officers wives was spotted getting roasted!! oh how we laughed (and then started whistling down to them to let them know they where being watched.) one of the lads wanted to run down and start giving some coaching but we decided against it. A Short time after it was taken over by the Howards Way Fellas, suprisingly enough we stopped training in the area when that happened. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chinahand Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Yeah, I bet you'd love to see that yourself, let alone if you are out with your kids. Nope, true enough, I can see the case for protecting kids. As for seeing it myself, I reckon I could avoid it by simply not looking? Now that is an example of what I call the liberal dilema, Sim. Who should be the thoughtful considerate person here - you, going oh I just won't look. Or the dogger - going oh I'll just resist my urge til I get home. You are living in LDV land if you think all will be fine if you just avert your eyes from everything you may find distasteful and let everyone else get on with whatever they want to do. This is an issue of public, not private interest. To say its fine by you because you can just walk on, is to me a very poor argument indeed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cronky Posted November 28, 2008 Share Posted November 28, 2008 Go and do it in private and leave the public space for public activities. I agree with you. These people are complete and utter perverts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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